As two young men who have lost the greatest parts of our lives to domestic homicide, we have committed to raising awareness and speaking out against male violence towards women and children.
We have delivered speeches at a variety of events internationally. We are always looking for opportunities to share our story and challenge male violence against women and children in our roles as White Ribbon Ambassadors and Refuge Champions.
On 19th July 2016, our father shot and killed our mother, Claire, and 19-year-old sister, Charlotte, in a car park swimming pool in broad daylight. He then committed suicide.
We had broken Mum and Charlotte out of the family home only five days previously, and moved them to safety five miles from the family home.
Despite our father's controlling nature, we had never considered our lives to be in danger. We had never considered that we were victims of domestic abuse as our father was never physically violent.
After the murders, we began an unravelling of our pasts.
Due to the volume of emails we receive, we regret that we cannot reply to all messages of thanks or requests for advice. For domestic abuse support, contact the 24-hour National Domestic Violence Freephone Helpline on 0808 2000 247
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